Human nature:
Monday, April 4, 2011
@ 6:00 PM
With years of online experience, I know for sure that communicating via Facebook, MSN, or AIM is much efficient and easier than talking to someone directly in person. I'm sure many of you know this as well, and the fact that it has more value when you express your feelings in person. Since we're all human, we all have something that we aren't capable of. Until we're sure of it, until there's a 100% guarantee, we won't give in. We won't give anything and most definitely not our all.
Lack of commitment is something that every one of us go through. It's human nature because no one wants to give their all to something they might never have. No one wants to be put in such a vulnerable position where everything could be taken from right underneath them. You can trust someone but that doesn't mean you won't have your doubts. You may love her or him, but that doesn't mean your feelings won't somewhat waver when someone else catches your eye.
You want them to know something but you don't want to be the one that tells them. Reason being: You're afraid of how they'll perceive you. You might lose them because of what you said. You don't want to regret making that decision. You're afraid to get hurt. You might lose their trust and even their love; unless it never meant anything to begin with.