An ideal man.
Monday, January 3, 2011 @ 11:52 PM

1) Have respect. For everyone, even your parents. It's a total turn off when I find guys cursing at their parents. That's total disrespect.
2) Be trustworthy, meaning you cannot lie; be honest with your feelings. Open up, don't hide or lie about anything, especially important details about yourself. We want to get to know THE real you.
3) Don't be a slacker. No one likes lazy people. Accomplish something big.
4) Don't stink with the stench of smoke, or alcohol. Or anything worse than that.
5) Shortness isn't cute, at least to me. I think it's awkward for a guy to be shorter than me. Oh, and they have to be older. Younger guys is a no no.
6) Be different. We live in a society where guys live to party and fuck around with girls. Please, don't be like that. Don't live to "git m0n3y and fuck b!tch3z" (LOL)
7) Since you're a guy, girls expect you to play video games. Enjoy it, but don't waste your fucking life on them. We aren't asking for all of your time but we at least deserve some. And don't EVER ditch your girl to play games. That's intolerable.
8) Be confident enough to introduce us to your friends. Then we know that you aren't scared to act the same in front of your friends. It's extremely irritating when guys act like complete douche bags just to "fit in" with the group.
9) Good hygiene. I think that's a given.
10) Jealousy is cute, but only to a certain limit, then it just gets annoying. Which leads to clingyness. Everyone needs their own space.
11) Any special talents such as: Cooking/baking, dancing, singing, drawing, writing, acting; Anything that makes you stand out from the crowd.
12) "Cool" - Chill, not aggressive. Be kind, think once, twice, and three times before you say something that might hurt us. 'Cause you know, us girls are sensitive.
13) Politeness. Have good manners and be confident in yourself, but don't be too cocky. Being modest is always a plus.
14) Have goals. You should want to do something with your life and have good self motivation.
15) I understand that cursing is the new "cool" these days but I prefer guys with a well expanded vocabulary. I don't want to hear the words, fuck, shit, damn, and hell over and over.
16) Have a good sense of humor. I don't know about you, but I love to joke around. And it's important for guys to always put a smile on a girl's face.
17) Know how to handle situations, correctly. This goes back to the whole aggressive thing. I get that guys should be the more dominant one in the relationship but you shouldn't blow up and say hurtful things during a fight, cause you'll most likely regret it later.
18) Always have our backs. You should always support what your girl does, no matter how stupid it is. For what reason? 'Cause she's yours, and you love her.
19) Looks aren't everything, but they sure are something. Looks are most likely what interests a person into talking to someone in the first place. So look decent, don't go around looking like total crap with bad style. In other words, don't make us look bad, and we won't do that either.
20) Don't fucking flirt. I stress this a lot. We won't get mad because you're talking to her, or because she's your friend. But yeah, we will get mad when you guys have late night phone calls/text messages, or any phone calls for that matter, and you spend your whole day talking to her. Know your limits. 
21) We should deserve special treatment. Don't treat us like every other girl you talk to.
22) Be understanding. We aren't perfect so we will make mistakes.