If you don't want disappointment,
Wednesday, October 20, 2010 @ 7:05 PM

Stop expecting so much. No expectations = no disappointment. This sounds rather simple but people tend to make it more complicated than it really is. The people that set the highest expectations are the ones that get disappointed the most. People set expectations for other people hoping that they'll act accordingly. Truth is, people will disappoint you, always. No, it's not because they're rude or they don't care about you. It's because everyone makes their own choices. They live for themselves and they live to please themselves, not anyone else. That's just how humans were created. They aren't going to let you get in the way of their happiness. That's why you see people break up and end friendships. They aren't happy with who they're with, or because they're no use to them. People throw other people away. They don't need you if you aren't beneficial to them.

People choose whatever that pleases them or find interest in. No interest = rejection. Unfortunately, rejection is common. Everyone gets rejected. It's a part of life and it's inevitable. You need to know how to deal with it. Think optimistic and don't let it get to you. Don't be hard on yourself because you have plenty of chances to try again. Just because you've failed this time doesn't mean you'll fail for the rest of your life. It isn't game over. The chances are unlimited. Failure leads to success and rejection builds character.