Boyfriend/Girlfriend-Centered
Monday, August 30, 2010
@ 4:23 PM
This may be the easiest trap to fall into. I mean, who hasn't been centered on a boyfriend or girlfriend at one point?
The ironic thing is that the more you center your life on someone, the more unattractive you become to that person. How's that? Well, first of all, if you're centered on someone, you're no longer hard to get. Second, it's irritating when someone builds their entire emotional life around you. Since their security comes from you and not from within themselves, they always need to have those sickening "Where do we stand" talks.
You can usually tell when a couple becomes centered on each other because they are forever breaking up and getting back together. Although their relationship has deteriorated, their emotional lives and identities are so intertwined that they can never fully let go of each other.
Believe me, you'll be a better boyfriend or girlfriend if you're not centered on your partner. Independence is more attractive than dependence. Besides, centering your life on another doesn't show that you love them, only that you're dependent on them.
Don't get obsessed with or centered on them, because, although there are exceptions, these relationships are usually about as stable as a yo-yo.
I have a very low tolerance span for bullshit, so I'll most likely overlook your (moronic) two cents if they are made. I'm not here to explain my thoughts or opinion to anyone. We can agree to disagree. You don't have to like how I blog or view things,
for it was never meant for you in the first place. I'm not forcing you to read any of my entries and you are definitely not obligated to follow me.