Sunday, May 2, 2010 @ 11:20 PM

I love him so much that I’d change myself for him, if I had him. I believe that I am my own person and that I will do as I please and do what pleases me. But I will do anything for him. Even if that does mean losing respect for myself. I already have changed. Look at who I am now and who I was. They are two completely different people.

Don't change yourself for someone. It's good if you change yourself for the better, but other than that, don't try to be someone you're not. Don't force yourself to change. People who really love you will love you for who you are, not what you're pretending to be. You have to stand strong for who you truly are; don't lose respect for yourself. Of course you have changed over time. I too, have changed, drastically. I'm a completely different person compared to who I was before, both physically and mentally. People go through change naturally. You shouldn't force yourself to change for someone else though. To look good in their eyes, to satisfy them, cause that's just plain stupid. Just because you have changed for him, does not mean he will want you. It's only going to be your loss in the end if you don't like who you end up being.