Reliable?
Friday, March 26, 2010 @ 6:38 PM

I learned that I can't rely on just one person forever. That person will disappear, whether death has taken them or distance, or just the lack of conversation. They will disappear. They either step out of your life or you walk out of theirs.

You can't really trust everyone with everything but yourself. Think about it, you have close friends but can you tell them every single thing about you? Every single thing you've done? Everything you feel? No, you cannot. People are untrustworthy. People are extremely critical. Even if they're your best friends, they will judge you. If they stop liking you as a friend, they will most likely reveal your inner most secrets. They are not to be trusted with secrets that are supposed to be kept. Don't rely on one person your whole life, that person will eventually disappoint you. That's just how life is. That person isn't going to live just so they can satisfy you. They have their own life. What if that person doesn't want you in their life anymore? What if they stop loving you? Will they even like you as a friend? What if everything just stops. Disappears. Ends. What will you do then? You'll feel alone because you've depended on that one single person the whole time. You never learned to depend on others. You need more than just one person to survive.